What Kind of Salad...

You Are a Ceasar Salad
You are very popular and easy to love. You strike a cord with people.
You are friendly and careful not to offend anyone. You try hard to get along.

And while you may avoid controversy, you are still very sincere. People love that about you.
You are dependable and steady. With you, what you see is what you get.

First I want to say that I don't like Ceasar Salad it is my least favourite salad and I am a salad lover. I don't like dressings on my salad though and Ceasar is one that needs dressing. Most people put way too much dressing on Ceasar salad and I don't like the taste of it...so it isn't one I eat often.

That being said let's get on with what a Ceasar salad person is :) I am not popular by no means...I never have been popular. I always make 'friends' with people in that they think I am great and are willing to talk to me when they are with me, but when it comes to making arrangements for other times it never happens. I remember once when I was about 23-24 being very depressed and looking for someone to hang out with just to put me in a better mood, I called every one of my friends in my book...which at the time was probably about 6-8 people, and every single one of them were busy and unavailable to me. This is the story of my life, lots of friends that are there if you want to come to them, or there when you are out in a group, or your friend when you see them at the grocery store, but don't have the time of day for you when you need a friend. So I guess that questions the easy to love aspect as well.

I do go out of my way to not offend people, I think mostly because I so desperately want friends that I struggle to ensure once I get one that I don't lose them. Also I think that is the way people are, they want you to just agree with them no matter what so that they feel better about themselves, and I tend to tell people what I think they want to hear to avoid conflict. Only my true friends the ones I know will not be offended by my opinion do I ever tell the whole truth, and of course my best friends are the ones that are brutally honest with me as well.

Sincerity is difficult to do when you are trying to make people happy but my motto is not to lie, if what I have to tell you is not how I truly feel then I will not tell you that. I will tell people things that will make them happy but I won't lie to them. I will struggle to find a good truth in everything and if I can't then I will say nothing.

I have been told I am dependable before, that I can always be counted on and I think unfortunately people take advantage of that in my life. People know that if I say I will do something for them I will do it so they ask me to do things that they don't want to do for themselves knowing that I will do it.

So I guess as much as I don't like Ceasar salad the description of one is pretty much me :)

2 comments:

Hm....maybe the salad is trying to tell you something or maybe you're trying to tell the salad something? Either way...great post!

 

Tammylin, I gotta tell you, the more I know about you the more I see myself in you. I really like you so I must like myself...lol.

Seriously, we all need friends like you and me but we don't need to be convenient.

I try to avoid conflict and drama and let things build up till I have had enough then I explode. People then say, "Imagine that, I would not have expected that out of you!"

I love your writing style. Are you a famous writer in disguise? :) {hugs}

 

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